My Big Bear

I'm feeling kinda sentimental today and guess it's a good time for me to write abt my hubby aka Big Bear (as Mazlan often calls him).

If you dun already know him, u'd prolly think he's a Serious, No Humour and Stuck-up kinda guy just from the way he looks (big sized and skinhead). Yeah, I know...looks can be very deceiving sumtimes. But if you get the chance to know him a lil better, you'll prolly find out the true him.

Big size equals super-huggable. A bad day can turn out otherwise just by getting a nice big hug from him. One of my lecturers used to say that if you wanna stay slim, u shd get at least 12 hugs in a day. Well, i think he's lying....cos I think I put on more weight than lose them. Sigh, lecturers are smart asses but dun believe every single thing that they say hokays!

One thing that you should know abt him is that he is a sentimental & emotional freak. He can cry just by the sight of his grandparents. He cried when we argued so much. He cried when his bro told him that he's getting married. He cried even after his bro got married. My gawd, imagine if I'm going to tell him that he's going to be a father or sumthing.......I'm sure he'd go super berserk. But its funny how I actually liked to see his vulnerability....that very thing that most guys try very hard to hide. It only shows that guys are also human and have a sensitive side too.

He is also well known for his weird and patience-testing behaviour. When asked a simple question like,"Have you brushed your teeth?"....He'll answer, "MAYYYYBEEE". He just can't give a straight Yes or No answer and will continue to push my limits to the point of no return. But, I must say he got this weird sense of humour which I have not found in other guys that I've known (except for his bro and dad...the Klassen boys are all the same). Its difficult to explain how weird his sense of humour is....u just hav to experience it yourselves.

He's also a major control freak. When we first lived together as a married couple, there were a lot of adjustments that each of us had to make. More so for him...cos he's so used to being on his own for the past few years. He can be so particular abt how a spoon should be placed, which day the laundry should be done, what kind of meat to cook in a particular day and etc. You can imagine how pissy I got due to him fussing abt small little things like that. I've lived with 3 men before (i.e. my dad and 2 younger bros) and none of them really cared abt all those things. They left everything to the discretion of my mum.

And guess wat, he is also a well-trained house husband. PHEW! He can cook, clean, do grocery shopping, make his own bed, iron his own clothes...wat more can u ask for aye?

Muakxs...love u babe.